Thursday, 24 October 2013

Black history month. Who is 'Saartjie Sarah Baartman' ?

Now playing (Sam cooke-A change is gonna come)

'Saartjie Sarah Baartman' Every black woman should know her name.

Although its not celebrated like it should be, especially here in the UK, does not make it less important. Most of us black people are so quick to use slavery and the oppression of our ancestors as a weapon when arguing over a matter or fighting against racism as if we really know our history or care as much as we portray. But the truth is a lot of us don't, if we did, it would show in our thoughts, words, actions. I am guilty too. Now when I came across this story, all i could ask myself was "HOW IN THE WORLD HAVE I NEVER HEARD ABOUT THIS?". I blamed myself for not researching on my own, about what we went through as a people. I also blamed society for letting our past be swept under a rug. I then put myself in the position of this young lady 'Saartjie Sarah Baartman'

'Saartjie Sarah Baartman' also known as 'hottentot venus' was one of the two khoi khoi women from the eastern cape of South Africa. After a European led commando raid in the town she was orphaned, widowed and lost her children. and as if that was not bad enough, she was taken to France by Alexander Dunlop who suggested to her Dutch slave master that she be taken to England for exhibition. Now she was being taken by a man who deals with animal specimens, in other words they believed the women of this town were not humans and portrayed animal like traits.

She started being exhibited in london as a freak show, a scientific curiosity, where she was made to be gawped and fondled with to entertain people at shows. She had very large buttocks (steatopygia) and also the elongated labia (vagina) of some khosian women. She was made to dance in provocative manners while the Europeans leered at her with lustful eyes and abused her, at times she couldn't hold back her tears and cry. She was treated like a wild beast, she was kept in a cage forced to dance even when ill, and threatened with fists or sticks when she did not co-operate.

After four years in England she was taken to France (Paris) to continue her round of degrading rounds of shows and exhibitions. Once they got tired of the show, Sarah was forced to turn to prostitution. Her body could not uphold the further abuse, foreign climate change and diseases, she died the next year in 1815 at the age of just 25. Sarah lived and died thousands of miles away from friends and family, with no means of ever getting back home.

As if she had not suffered enough in her lifetime, George cuvier a french scientist made a plaster cast of her body, removed her skeletons, brain and genitals placing them in a jar, to be displayed in a museum. After the years of abuse, heartache and torment they still did not allow her body to rest in peace. The europeans so badly waanted to prove that we was not human like they. They described her in relation to an animal, lips like a chimpanzee. They described her buttocks like those of a female ape.

160 years later and they were still on display, but were finally removed from public view in 1974, President Nelson Mandela asked for her remains to be brought home in 1994. It took the French government 8 years to pass the bill, and she was finally given a proper burial in just 2002! Her grave has been declared a national heritage site, and i hope to visit their one day!

What amuses me is how times have changed...but in a way they haven't. In those days our black women were forced to dance provocatively, showcase their body parts etc...But now black women do these things at their own will! And they do it proudly. With no care in the world. I for one will be educating my daughters on how a black woman should carry herself. It has been done in the past for a reason, so we can appreciate and respect our bodies. So we can treat our bodies like a temple. We have free will now, women like 'Saara' did not. Im very sure if she was alive she would be very confused at some things in society today. We are still in the mind state of slavery, things like 'KING magazine' and many more proves some black women just dont get it. Anyways i did not really write this to preach! I wrote it to honour 'Saara Baartman' she deserves it, after publicly being humiliated for 100's of years. And she was just 20 when the ordeal began, a year below myself. Mmmmm.




 Here is a movie based on her life. Now this movie does NOT, i repeat does NOT even portray HALF of what she went through, but the movie was toned down in content. Watch if you feel. I personally couldn't, i continuously kept skipping turning a 2 hour movie into a 5 minute one. I have anger issues and wanted to avoid throwing my laptop at the wall lol.

Monday, 14 October 2013

Who says Nollywood is dead? ...... October 1 - 1st Official Trailer


When i speak to most Nigerians...they have nothing good to say about Nollywood, and it makes me saaaaad. Its the majority bringing the minority down. Some people will wake up one day and decide they have been blessed with the gift of film making...mentioning no names *cough cough...blackberry babes, peruvian hair wahala*. I was on the train this morning and my caribbean friend was LAUGHING his head off at a movie called 'Brazilian babes' or whatever dem dey call d film, and i always find myself fighting for Nollywood and recommending something they can not point the finger and make fun of. Like this morning i recommended 'Mr and Mrs (CLASSIC). As Nigerians Nollywood is ours, it is an art of storytelling and we should support it always. Anyways sha Kunle Afolayan and many more film directors are here to shut you all up!




Thursday, 10 October 2013

Everyone must read...

I said it, i would start and come back months later...and I did.

Now.

I've had a morning of a GOOD read. now listening to some Aaliyah, (in the library) she reminds me constantly of who i am pushing to be sooner than later. Yeah...back to the matter...my good read 'The 7 habits of highly effective people'. By 'STEPHEN R.COVEY.' I find myself commending this book to people more than any other book i have read. This books holds the key to self progression, professionally and personally. It really does. I have started to look at things in a different way since i began this book...Take for instance this section:

Human nature is four dimensional-body, mind, heart, and spirit. Consider the differences and fruits of the two approaches:

BODY:
Cultural tendency: maintain lifestyle; treat health problems with surgery and medication.
Principle: prevent diseases and problems by aligning lifestyle to be in harmony with established, universally accepted principles f health.

MIND:
Culture: watch television, "entertain me."
Principles: read broadly and deeply, continuous education.

HEART
Culture: use relationships with others to forward your personal, selfish interests
Principle: deep, respectful listening and serving others brings greatest fulfilment and joy.

SPIRIT
Culture: succumb to growing secularism and cynicism
Principle: recognise that the source of our basic need for meaning and of the positive things we seek in life is principles-natural laws i personally believe have their source in God.


Another section reads:

Listening to our language 
Reactive language vs Proactive language

Theres nothing I can do  |   Lets look at our alternatives
That's just the way I am  |   I can choose a different approach
He makes me so mad      |   I control my own feelings
They won't allow that     |   I can create an effective presentation
I have to do that              |   I will choose an appropriate response
I can't                              |   I choose
I must                              |   I prefer
If only                             |   I will

So basically our attitudes and behaviours flow out of paradigms, if we use our self awareness to examine them, we can often see in them nature of our underlying maps. The word impossible itself spells possible. GBAM.
I just feel this book gets one back on track...so you don't wake up one day and realise you made very bad moves 10 years AGO. There is no literate person in our society who would not benefit by reading this book and applying its principles. A must read. Go get it. YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA.

Back to class for me.






Tuesday, 20 August 2013

Well well well...

Years of procrastinating have come to an end...i have finally decided to start up this 'Blog'...Suddenly i am short of words (letters). Where do i start? 21, studying, in search of the woman I believe i am destined to be...its at my fingertips. I can feel it. My break-through... Just cant place my hands on it! So this blog is to share my journey...journey to __________ (Lips sealed) Anyways, i'll see how this blog goes. I am used to starting something up and coming back to it months later. *Wails* Im terrible!


Forgot to mention...IM NIGERIAN. I wear it on my back. Nigeria, its content, its culture, EVERYTHING to do with Nigeria. Is all I ever talk about.